The Books:   We're offering these books because we want to share our learning experiences with you -- experiences about relationships and particularly, about sensual and sexual intimacy.   The books are just one of our three  Intimacy-Teaching-Learning Tools.   

The Internet:   The second tool is the Internet connection.   Our approach is to bring CLIC style sensuality into an Internet world where sexual fulfillment presently appears to have only two components,  Get laid tonight and  Find a mate - a life partner.  

We are adding a third dimension to  Flat-Lander, Two-Dimensional Sex.   We're opening up the Internet to those people who would like to get together with another person and share sensual and sexual intimacy including full orgasm, and do so without the exchange of bodily fluids.   We call it CLIC Sex/Safely.   Some simply say CLIC Sex.  

CLIC Sex/Safely:   NO unwanted pregnancies!   NO sexually transmitted diseases!   NO freedom-squelching, long-term commitments!   NO future expectations!   NO hidden agendas!   NO unintentional kids to support.  That's enjoying Sex/Safely!  

"CLIC/Sex/Safely" (CLIC Sex)  is the name we use for a safe variation of the recreational sex game called "Friends with Benefits."  

We call our sensual/sexual game "CLIC/Sex/Safely" because we've eliminated most of the problems attached to obtaining sexual fulfillment.  We'd added sexual fulfillment in a safe environment and we've added peace of mind.  

Peace of Mind:   Two huge benefits of Caring and Loving Inimacy Connections (CLICs)  are first,  the ease with which one can obtain  sensual and sexual fulfillment  and second, being able to do so with great peace of mind.   Peace of mind comes from knowing that you're in a completely safe environment -- from knowing that you can share orgasms with himer (him/her) without the exchange of bodily fluids and from knowing that you won't be forced into traditional, penetration sex.  

As an example, here's one of the CLIC safety rules:   The rules can only be changed by mutual agreement, and the rules cannot be changed while engaged is a CLI Connection session.   The agreed-upon changes can only be applied after a 24 hour waiting period.   This rule prevents in-the-moment passion from overwhelming the couple's agreements and it keeps them from engaging in dangerous sex - sex that shares bodily fluids.   

The Internet:   CLIC-focused Internet Connections can connect to you people of like mind and when you share intimacy with them, you both know that you do so in the CLIC context - a context with a pre-agreed-upon set of behavior rules that both parties have agreed to follow.  

Safety First:  Please be aware that all safety precautions that apply to Internet Mate-Finding Services also apply to CLI Connections.   For example, "The first physical meeting with someone you met on the Internet should be in a public place."   We recommend that if you are a woman, have a friend attend the meeting with you and have your friend take a picture of the two of you.   If the man you meet has hidden and criminal intentions the photos will cause him to end his interest in you.  

If you have serious doubts about the guy, as you are leaving and while you distract his attention, have your girlfriend pick up leave with something that has his fingerprints on it.